{"id":2059,"date":"2025-08-28T19:27:49","date_gmt":"2025-08-28T16:27:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/?p=2059"},"modified":"2025-08-28T19:27:49","modified_gmt":"2025-08-28T16:27:49","slug":"pod-nasi-fotkou-v-plavkach-moje-vlastni-dcera-napsala-spoustu-osklivosti-rozhodla-jsem-se-ji-dat-lekci-%f0%9f%98%a2%f0%9f%98%a2pokracovani-v-prvnim-komentari-%f0%9f%91%87%f0%9f%91%87","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/?p=2059","title":{"rendered":"Pod na\u0161\u00ed fotkou v plavk\u00e1ch moje vlastn\u00ed dcera napsala spoustu o\u0161klivost\u00ed: rozhodla jsem se j\u00ed d\u00e1t lekci \ud83d\ude22\ud83d\ude22Pokra\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed v prvn\u00edm koment\u00e1\u0159i \ud83d\udc47\ud83d\udc47"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Nikdy jsem se nestyd\u011bla za sv\u016fj vzhled. Ano, je mi \u0161edes\u00e1t, u\u017e d\u00e1vno nejsem mlad\u00e1 \u017eena z ob\u00e1lky \u010dasopisu, moje postava nen\u00ed dokonal\u00e1 \u2013 ale v\u017edycky jsem se p\u0159ij\u00edmala takov\u00e1, jak\u00e1 jsem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00e1m vr\u00e1sky, mal\u00e9 m\u011bkk\u00e9 b\u0159\u00ed\u0161ko a boky, na kter\u00e9 jsem byla kdysi py\u0161n\u00e1 a kter\u00e9 dnes ukazuj\u00ed roky, kter\u00e9 jsem pro\u017eila. Ale to v\u0161echno je sou\u010d\u00e1st m\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu, m\u00e9ho \u017eivota. A m\u016fj man\u017eel mi v\u017edycky \u0159\u00edkal, \u017ee jsem kr\u00e1sn\u00e1. Dokonce i te\u010f, po 35 letech man\u017eelstv\u00ed, se na m\u011b je\u0161t\u011b um\u00ed pod\u00edvat tak, jako kdybychom se potkali v\u010dera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ale ned\u00e1vno se v\u0161echno zm\u011bnilo. Poprv\u00e9 v \u017eivot\u011b jsem se za\u010dala styd\u011bt za sebe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u0161echno za\u010dalo zd\u00e1nliv\u011b nevinnou fotkou. Jeli jsme k mo\u0159i \u2013 vz\u00e1cn\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost uniknout z rutiny. Byli jsme na pl\u00e1\u017ei v plavk\u00e1ch, on m\u011b dr\u017eel kolem pasu a j\u00e1 se usm\u00edvala. Cht\u011bla jsem si ten okam\u017eik uchovat a pod\u011blit se o n\u011bj na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ano, v\u011bd\u011bla jsem, \u017ee plavky ukazuj\u00ed v\u0161echny m\u00e9 nedostatky. Ale proboha, to p\u0159ece nen\u00ed d\u016fvod se p\u0159ed sv\u011btem schov\u00e1vat!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O p\u00e1r hodin pozd\u011bji se za\u010daly objevovat \u201elajky\u201c a mil\u00e9 koment\u00e1\u0159e: \u201eJak kr\u00e1sn\u00fd p\u00e1r!\u201c, \u201eJe n\u00e1dhern\u00e9, \u017ee jste spolu je\u0161t\u011b po tolika letech!\u201c Usm\u00edvala jsem se\u2026 dokud jsem neuvid\u011bla koment\u00e1\u0159 vlastn\u00ed dcery.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Napsala: \u201eMami, v tv\u00e9m v\u011bku se takhle neobl\u00e9k\u00e1. A u\u017e v\u016fbec ne proto, aby \u010dlov\u011bk vystavoval svoje \u0161peky. Rad\u0161i tu fotku sma\u017e.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Z\u016fstala jsem jako zkamen\u011bl\u00e1. Jako by na m\u011b n\u011bkdo vylil k\u00fdbl ledov\u00e9 vody.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nebyl to \u017eert. Bylo to v\u00e1\u017en\u011b. Srdce se mi sev\u0159elo. J\u00e1, kter\u00e1 jsem ji p\u0159ivedla na sv\u011bt, probd\u011bla pro ni noci, krmila ji, vodila do \u0161koly, pom\u00e1hala dostat se na univerzitu\u2026 A ona mi tohle nap\u00ed\u0161e.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V tu chv\u00edli jsem to nevydr\u017eela a ud\u011blala jsem n\u011bco, \u010deho nelituji. Bohu\u017eel te\u010f se mus\u00edm znovu u\u010dit p\u0159ij\u00edmat a milovat samu sebe \ud83d\ude22.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dlouho jsem jen z\u00edrala na obrazovku. Pak jsem za\u010dala pomalu ps\u00e1t:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u201eMoje mil\u00e1, tohle jsou na\u0161e geny. Za dvacet let bude\u0161 m\u00edt stejn\u00e9 t\u011blo. A up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b douf\u00e1m, \u017ee tehdy bude\u0161 m\u00edt rozum na to, abys ses za n\u011bj nestyd\u011bla.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Odeslala jsem. Jej\u00ed koment\u00e1\u0159 jsem smazala.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ale to mi nesta\u010dilo. Rozhodla jsem se, \u017ee kdy\u017e si dovolila m\u011b ve\u0159ejn\u011b pon\u00ed\u017eit, m\u00e1m pln\u00e9 pr\u00e1vo nastavit hranice. P\u0159estala jsem j\u00ed zvedat telefony. A kdy\u017e m\u011b po dvou t\u00fddnech po\u017e\u00e1dala o pen\u00edze, chladn\u011b jsem odpov\u011bd\u011bla:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 \u201eJe mi l\u00edto, u\u017e jsem v\u0161echno utratila za j\u00eddlo. Odtud jsou ty moje \u0161peky.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Urazila se. Ale up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b, bylo mi to jedno. Mo\u017en\u00e1 jsem to p\u0159ehnala, ale v tu chv\u00edli jsem se br\u00e1nila.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A ano, od t\u00e9 doby se je\u0161t\u011b p\u0159istihnu, \u017ee se na sv\u016fj odraz d\u00edv\u00e1m kriti\u010dt\u011bji. N\u011bkdy si v plavk\u00e1ch zakr\u00fdv\u00e1m b\u0159icho ru\u010dn\u00edkem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mrz\u00ed m\u011b to \u2013 proto\u017ee v\u00edm, \u017ee probl\u00e9m nen\u00ed v m\u00e9m t\u011ble, ale v tom, \u017ee my \u017eeny p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \u010dasto dovol\u00edme ostatn\u00edm, aby n\u00e1m diktovali, jak m\u00e1me \u017e\u00edt a jak vypadat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dala jsem lekci sv\u00e9 dce\u0159i, ale mn\u011b samotn\u00e9 zb\u00fdv\u00e1 ta nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed \u2013 nau\u010dit se p\u0159estat styd\u011bt za to, k\u00fdm jsem.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Nikdy jsem se nestyd\u011bla za sv\u016fj vzhled. Ano, je mi \u0161edes\u00e1t, u\u017e d\u00e1vno nejsem mlad\u00e1 \u017eena z ob\u00e1lky \u010dasopisu, moje postava nen\u00ed dokonal\u00e1 \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2060,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2059","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-1"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2059","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2059"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2059\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2061,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2059\/revisions\/2061"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2060"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2059"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2059"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2059"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}