{"id":2270,"date":"2025-09-06T22:15:08","date_gmt":"2025-09-06T19:15:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/?p=2270"},"modified":"2025-09-06T22:15:08","modified_gmt":"2025-09-06T19:15:08","slug":"pozvala-jsem-muze-k-sobe-domu-na-romantickou-veceri-presne-ve-20-hodin-nekdo-zaklepal-na-dvere-otevrela-jsem-a-zustala-jsem-ztuhla-pred-tim-co-jsem-uvidela-%f0%9f%98%b1%f0%9f%98%b1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/?p=2270","title":{"rendered":"Pozvala jsem mu\u017ee k sob\u011b dom\u016f na romantickou ve\u010de\u0159i: p\u0159esn\u011b ve 20 hodin n\u011bkdo zaklepal na dve\u0159e, otev\u0159ela jsem\u2026 a z\u016fstala jsem ztuhl\u00e1 p\u0159ed t\u00edm, co jsem uvid\u011bla \ud83d\ude31\ud83d\ude31"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Moje kamar\u00e1dky \u0159\u00edkaly, \u017ee jsem bl\u00e1zen, kdy\u017e jsem se znovu za\u010dala zaj\u00edmat o mu\u017ee. Je mi 54 let, man\u017eel m\u011b opustil. Cht\u011bla jsem se jen znovu c\u00edtit milovan\u00e1 a \u017e\u00e1douc\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A tehdy do m\u00e9ho \u017eivota vstoupil nov\u00fd mu\u017e. Byli jsme soused\u00e9, ob\u010das jsme se potkali v parku. \u010casto jsme si pov\u00eddali a postupn\u011b jsme se sbli\u017eovali.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jednoho dne m\u011b pozval na sch\u016fzku. Rozhodla jsem se ji uspo\u0159\u00e1dat u sebe doma. V\u0161echno jsem p\u0159ipravila kr\u00e1sn\u011b a romanticky: sv\u00ed\u010dky, ve\u010de\u0159e, hudba \u2013 jen my dva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0159esn\u011b ve 20 hodin n\u011bkdo zaklepal na dve\u0159e. \u0160la jsem otev\u0159\u00edt\u2026 a z\u016fstala jsem ztuhl\u00e1 p\u0159ed t\u00edm, co jsem uvid\u011bla. \ud83d\ude31\ud83d\ude31 V\u016fbec jsem to ne\u010dekala. Pokra\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed v prvn\u00edm koment\u00e1\u0159i \ud83d\udc47\ud83d\udc47<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Na prahu st\u00e1l m\u016fj nov\u00fd mu\u017e \u2013 bez kv\u011btin, bez d\u00e1rku, bez sebemen\u0161\u00ed pozornosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 \u201eV\u00e1\u017en\u011b?\u201c zeptala jsem se, nev\u011b\u0159ila jsem vlastn\u00edm o\u010d\u00edm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 \u201eCo?\u201c odpov\u011bd\u011bl p\u0159ekvapen\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 \u201eKde jsou kv\u011btiny, kde je ta pozornost?\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pohrdav\u011b se usm\u00e1l:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u2013 \u201eJak\u00e9 kv\u011btiny? Nejsem \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd kluk, abych nosil ,kyti\u010dky\u2018.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vzdychla jsem a najednou jsem pochopila:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 \u201eA j\u00e1 u\u017e nejsem \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 hol\u010di\u010dka, abych si vyb\u00edrala mu\u017ee jako ty. V m\u00e9m v\u011bku nepot\u0159ebuji n\u011bkoho, kdo ani v mali\u010dkostech nech\u00e1pe hodnotu \u017eeny. J\u00e1 jsem se sna\u017eila, v\u0161echno ud\u011blala romantick\u00e9. Rad\u011bji odejdi\u2026 a zapome\u0148 na m\u011b.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dve\u0159e se zav\u0159ely, sv\u00ed\u010dky d\u00e1l ho\u0159ely a ve\u010de\u0159e z\u016fstala nedot\u010den\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Druh\u00fd den jsem v\u0161echno vypr\u00e1v\u011bla kamar\u00e1dk\u00e1m. N\u011bkter\u00e9 mi \u0159ekly, \u017ee jsem m\u011bla pravdu, \u017ee si zaslou\u017e\u00edm v\u00edc a nem\u00e1m se spokojit s drobky. Jin\u00e9 naopak tvrdily, \u017ee jsem promarnila svou posledn\u00ed \u0161anci, \u017ee v m\u00e9m v\u011bku se m\u00e1 \u010dlov\u011bk dr\u017eet kohokoli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A j\u00e1 se pt\u00e1m sama sebe: opravdu je t\u0159eba b\u00e1t se z\u016fstat sama, kdy\u017e alternativou je zradit samu sebe?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Moje kamar\u00e1dky \u0159\u00edkaly, \u017ee jsem bl\u00e1zen, kdy\u017e jsem se znovu za\u010dala zaj\u00edmat o mu\u017ee. Je mi 54 let, man\u017eel m\u011b opustil. Cht\u011bla jsem \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2271,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2270","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-1"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2270","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2270"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2270\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2272,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2270\/revisions\/2272"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2271"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2270"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2270"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2270"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}