{"id":2408,"date":"2025-09-14T19:39:26","date_gmt":"2025-09-14T16:39:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/?p=2408"},"modified":"2025-09-14T19:39:26","modified_gmt":"2025-09-14T16:39:26","slug":"po-tezkem-porodu-mi-manzel-rekl-ze-si-musim-zaplatit-porod-sama-protoze-lekari-poskytovali-sluzbu-mne-tady-je-lekce-kterou-jsem-mu-dala","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/?p=2408","title":{"rendered":"Po t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9m porodu mi man\u017eel \u0159ekl, \u017ee si mus\u00edm zaplatit porod sama, proto\u017ee l\u00e9ka\u0159i poskytovali slu\u017ebu mn\u011b: tady je lekce, kterou jsem mu dala"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Po t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9m porodu mi man\u017eel \u0159ekl, \u017ee si mus\u00edm zaplatit porod sama, proto\u017ee l\u00e9ka\u0159i poskytovali slu\u017ebu mn\u011b: tady je lekce, kterou jsem mu dala <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Porod trval t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 dvacet hodin. Zd\u00e1lo se, \u017ee \u010das se zastavil a bolest i vy\u010derp\u00e1n\u00ed nikdy neskon\u010d\u00ed. Kdy\u017e to v\u0161echno bylo za mnou a j\u00e1, zni\u010den\u00e1, tiskla k sob\u011b ten mali\u010dk\u00fd uzl\u00ed\u010dek \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed, myslela jsem, \u017ee to nejhor\u0161\u00ed je pry\u010d. Ale m\u00fdlila jsem se.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Po t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9m porodu mi man\u017eel \u0159ekl, \u017ee si mus\u00edm zaplatit porod sama, proto\u017ee l\u00e9ka\u0159i poskytovali slu\u017ebu mn\u011b: tady je lekce, kterou jsem mu dala.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O p\u00e1r dn\u00ed pozd\u011bji p\u0159i\u0161el nemocni\u010dn\u00ed \u00fa\u010det \u2014 na m\u00e9 jm\u00e9no. \u010c\u00e1stka byla vysok\u00e1, ale byla jsem si jist\u00e1: zaplat\u00edme ji s man\u017eelem spole\u010dn\u011b. V\u017edy\u0165 d\u00edt\u011b je na\u0161e. Jeho reakce m\u011b ale \u0161okovala. Jen letmo pohl\u00e9dl na pap\u00edr a chladn\u011b pronesl:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Tv\u016fj \u00fa\u010det \u2014 tv\u016fj probl\u00e9m. Poskytovali slu\u017ebu tob\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nejd\u0159\u00edv jsem si myslela, \u017ee je to hloup\u00fd vtip. Ale on to myslel v\u00e1\u017en\u011b. P\u0159ipomn\u011bla jsem mu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Porodila jsem NA\u0160E d\u00edt\u011b. Nebyla to \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 wellness procedura.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pokr\u010dil rameny:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 U\u017e kupuju plenky a um\u011blou v\u00fd\u017eivu. Nem\u00e1m v \u00famyslu platit za nemocnici.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ta slova byla jako r\u00e1na. Uv\u011bdomila jsem si: vedle m\u011b je \u010dlov\u011bk, pro kter\u00e9ho jsou m\u00e9 bolesti jen \u201eslu\u017eba\u201c, kter\u00e1 se ho net\u00fdk\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A tehdy jsem se rozhodla: kdy\u017e se chov\u00e1 jako hajzl, budu s n\u00edm mluvit jeho jazykem. Tohle jsem ud\u011blala. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Po t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9m porodu mi man\u017eel \u0159ekl, \u017ee si mus\u00edm zaplatit porod sama, proto\u017ee l\u00e9ka\u0159i poskytovali slu\u017ebu mn\u011b: tady je lekce, kterou jsem mu dala.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vzala jsem si blok a za\u010dala ps\u00e1t seznam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Porod d\u00edt\u011bte? Pros\u00edm, \u00fa\u010det za 19 hodin \u201epr\u00e1ce\u201c.
\u2014 No\u010dn\u00ed kojen\u00ed? P\u0159esn\u00e1 sazba za ka\u017ed\u00e9.
\u2014 Pran\u00ed d\u011btsk\u00e9ho oble\u010den\u00ed? Samostatn\u00e1 polo\u017eka.
\u2014 Myt\u00ed lahvi\u010dek, probd\u011bl\u00e9 noci, n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy l\u00e9ka\u0159e, dokonce i to, \u017ee jsem va\u0159ila j\u00eddlo, zat\u00edmco jsem sama byla v rekonvalescenci \u2014 v\u0161echno se prom\u011bnilo v \u0159\u00e1dky s \u010d\u00e1stkami.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tyto \u201e\u00fa\u010dty\u201c jsem mu nech\u00e1vala na stole, pe\u010dliv\u011b slo\u017een\u00e9. Nejd\u0159\u00edv se sm\u00e1l. Pak za\u010dal b\u00fdt podr\u00e1\u017ed\u011bn\u00fd. Ale j\u00e1 pokra\u010dovala \u2014 metodicky, bez emoc\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u011bs\u00edc po porodu jsem si najala ch\u016fvu. Ano, st\u00e1lo to pen\u00edze, ale j\u00e1 se vr\u00e1tila do pr\u00e1ce. Pot\u0159ebovala jsem si dok\u00e1zat, \u017ee na n\u011bm nejsem z\u00e1visl\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Po t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9m porodu mi man\u017eel \u0159ekl, \u017ee si mus\u00edm zaplatit porod sama, proto\u017ee l\u00e9ka\u0159i poskytovali slu\u017ebu mn\u011b: tady je lekce, kterou jsem mu dala.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A pak jsem podala \u017e\u00e1dost o rozvod. A o alimenty. A\u0165 mu te\u010f st\u00e1t vysv\u011btl\u00ed, \u017ee \u201eto je tak\u00e9 jeho d\u00edt\u011b\u201c. U\u017e jsem byla unaven\u00e1 \u017eebrat o respekt a podporu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kdy\u017e p\u0159i\u0161lo prvn\u00ed soudn\u00ed rozhodnut\u00ed, kde bylo naps\u00e1no, kolik mus\u00ed m\u011bs\u00ed\u010dn\u011b platit, c\u00edtila jsem zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed uspokojen\u00ed. Bylo to moje tich\u00e9 v\u00edt\u011bzstv\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cht\u011bl, aby v\u0161e bylo podle v\u00fdpo\u010dt\u016f? Dob\u0159e. Te\u010f to podle v\u00fdpo\u010dt\u016f bude. Jen\u017ee ne podle jeho.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Po t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9m porodu mi man\u017eel \u0159ekl, \u017ee si mus\u00edm zaplatit porod sama, proto\u017ee l\u00e9ka\u0159i poskytovali slu\u017ebu mn\u011b: tady je lekce, kterou jsem mu \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2409,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2408","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-1"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2408","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2408"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2408\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2410,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2408\/revisions\/2410"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2409"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2408"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2408"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2408"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}