{"id":2882,"date":"2025-10-03T21:48:38","date_gmt":"2025-10-03T18:48:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/?p=2882"},"modified":"2025-10-03T21:48:38","modified_gmt":"2025-10-03T18:48:38","slug":"na-plazi-ke-mne-prisla-jedna-zena-priblizne-v-mem-veku-a-zacala-kritizovat-muj-vzhled-ale-muj-razny-odpoved-ji-sokovala","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/?p=2882","title":{"rendered":"Na pl\u00e1\u017ei ke mn\u011b p\u0159i\u0161la jedna \u017eena, p\u0159ibli\u017en\u011b v m\u00e9m v\u011bku, a za\u010dala kritizovat m\u016fj vzhled: ale m\u016fj r\u00e1zn\u00fd odpov\u011b\u010f ji \u0161okovala"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Je mi 60 let, ale mnoho lid\u00ed kolem se div\u00ed, kdy\u017e sly\u0161\u00ed m\u016fj v\u011bk. \u201eVypad\u00e1\u0161 mlad\u0161\u00ed, sv\u011b\u017ee a sebev\u011bdom\u011b,\u201c \u010dasto mi \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b ch\u00e1pu, \u017ee l\u00e9ta se podepisuj\u00ed: postava se zm\u011bnila, p\u0159ibylo p\u00e1r kilo nav\u00edc, k\u016f\u017ee u\u017e nen\u00ed tak pevn\u00e1 jako d\u0159\u00edve. Ale v\u00edte co? Nau\u010dila jsem se milovat sama sebe v ka\u017ed\u00e9m v\u011bku a p\u0159i ka\u017ed\u00e9 v\u00e1ze. A hlavn\u00ed je, \u017ee se nestyd\u00edm za sv\u00e9 t\u011blo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ned\u00e1vno se stala situace, kter\u00e1 mi uk\u00e1zala, jak je to d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S man\u017eelem jsme si u\u017e\u00edvali odpo\u010dinku na pl\u00e1\u017ei. M\u011bla jsem na sob\u011b sv\u00e9 obl\u00edben\u00e9 dvoud\u00edln\u00e9 plavky. Proch\u00e1zeli jsme se po pob\u0159e\u017e\u00ed, sm\u00e1li se, fotili. V\u0161echno bylo jako obvykle, dokud k n\u00e1m nep\u0159i\u0161la \u017eena p\u0159ibli\u017en\u011b v m\u00e9m v\u011bku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Byla oble\u010den\u00e1 podivn\u011b na tak hork\u00e9 po\u010das\u00ed: dlouh\u00e9 tmav\u00e9 kalhoty a mikina s ruk\u00e1vy. Je\u0161t\u011b jsem se divila \u2014 jak m\u016f\u017ee \u010dlov\u011bk vydr\u017eet v tom ve \u010dty\u0159icetistup\u0148ov\u00e9m horku?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u201eV\u00ed\u0161,\u201c \u0159ekla n\u00e1hle, ani\u017e by se pozdravila, rovnou na \u201ety\u201c, \u2014 \u201ev na\u0161em v\u011bku se takhle obl\u00e9kat prost\u011b nehod\u00ed. Jsi dosp\u011bl\u00e1 \u017eena, pro\u010d v\u0161echno ukazovat? Koho chce\u0161 sv\u00e9st?\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Z\u016fstala jsem ohromen\u00e1 jej\u00ed drzost\u00ed. Man\u017eel se sotva zadr\u017eoval, aby se nezasm\u00e1l.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"728\" height=\"751\" src=\"https:\/\/chexia.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/256-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2883\" srcset=\"https:\/\/chexia.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/256-1.png 728w, https:\/\/chexia.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/256-1-291x300.png 291w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 728px) 100vw, 728px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u201eTo nen\u00ed tvoje v\u011bc,\u201c odpov\u011bd\u011bla jsem klidn\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ale \u017eena nehodlala ustoupit:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u201eAno, to je tv\u00e9 pr\u00e1vo, ale zven\u010d\u00ed to vypad\u00e1 vulg\u00e1rn\u011b a odporn\u011b. M\u00e1\u0161 p\u0159ece p\u00e1r kilo nav\u00edc, m\u011bla by ses styd\u011bt!\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zhluboka jsem se nadechla, ale rozhodla jsem se nenechat se urazit:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u201eNe, nestyd\u00edm se. Miluji sv\u00e9 t\u011blo a nehodl\u00e1m ho skr\u00fdvat jen proto, \u017ee se to n\u011bkomu nel\u00edb\u00ed.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P\u0159esto pokra\u010dovala, jako by m\u011b cht\u011bla p\u0159iv\u00e9st k slz\u00e1m nebo p\u0159inutit odej\u00edt z pl\u00e1\u017ee. Nakonec jsem j\u00ed ale tak ost\u0159e odpov\u011bd\u011bla, \u017ee ode\u0161la s pl\u00e1\u010de. A j\u00e1 toho v\u016fbec nelituji. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0158ekla jsem j\u00ed p\u0159\u00edmo do o\u010d\u00ed:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u201eV\u00edte, j\u00e1 na v\u00e1s kouk\u00e1m a vid\u00edm \u017eenu, kter\u00e1 nen\u00e1vid\u00ed sv\u00e9 t\u011blo. Kter\u00e9 cel\u00fd \u017eivot vtloukali do hlavy, \u017ee je tlust\u00e1, o\u0161kliv\u00e1, ned\u016fstojn\u00e1. A te\u010f je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 vid\u011bt n\u011bkoho, kdo \u017eije jinak, kdo se m\u00e1 r\u00e1d. Ale u\u017e nejsme v tom v\u011bku, abychom se b\u00e1li \u017e\u00edt. Pokud m\u00e1m p\u00e1r kilo nav\u00edc \u2014 je to m\u016fj \u017eivot, moje radosti a vzpom\u00ednky. Nehodl\u00e1m se skr\u00fdvat.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ona ztichla a j\u00e1 pokra\u010dovala:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u201eMo\u017en\u00e1 byste m\u00edsto \u00fatok\u016f na druh\u00e9 m\u011bla sama obl\u00e9knout plavky a dovolit si poc\u00edtit svobodu? P\u0159esta\u0148te z\u00e1vid\u011bt t\u011bm, kdo se odv\u00e1\u017eili \u017e\u00edt bez omezen\u00ed, a dejte si toto pr\u00e1vo. J\u00e1 vid\u00edm, \u017ee jste prost\u011b ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00e1.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u017dena se odvr\u00e1tila, jej\u00ed o\u010di se leskly, a ani\u017e by cokoli \u0159ekla, rychle ode\u0161la. Man\u017eel m\u011b pevn\u011b objal a za\u0161eptal:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 \u201eJsi skv\u011bl\u00e1.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A v\u00edte, opravdu toho nelituji. Proto\u017ee n\u011bkdy up\u0159\u00edmn\u00e1 slova nejsou krutost, ale \u0161ance pro druh\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka zamyslet se a mo\u017en\u00e1 zm\u011bnit sv\u016fj \u017eivot.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Je mi 60 let, ale mnoho lid\u00ed kolem se div\u00ed, kdy\u017e sly\u0161\u00ed m\u016fj v\u011bk. \u201eVypad\u00e1\u0161 mlad\u0161\u00ed, sv\u011b\u017ee a sebev\u011bdom\u011b,\u201c \u010dasto mi \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b \n<a class=\"moretag\" href=\"https:\/\/chexia.info\/?p=2882\"> [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2883,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2882","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-1"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2882","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2882"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2882\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2884,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2882\/revisions\/2884"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2883"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2882"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2882"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2882"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}