{"id":2927,"date":"2025-10-05T21:42:03","date_gmt":"2025-10-05T18:42:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/?p=2927"},"modified":"2025-10-05T21:42:03","modified_gmt":"2025-10-05T18:42:03","slug":"pod-nasi-spolecnou-fotkou-v-plavkach-napsala-vlastni-dcera-same-osklive-veci-rozhodla-jsem-se-ji-poucit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/?p=2927","title":{"rendered":"Pod na\u0161i spole\u010dnou fotkou v plavk\u00e1ch napsala vlastn\u00ed dcera sam\u00e9 o\u0161kliv\u00e9 v\u011bci \u2013 rozhodla jsem se ji pou\u010dit"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Nikdy jsem se nestyd\u011bla za sv\u016fj vzhled. Ano, je mi u\u017e \u0161edes\u00e1t, nejsem mlad\u00e1 d\u00edvka z ob\u00e1lky \u010dasopisu, moje postava m\u00e1 daleko k ide\u00e1lu \u2013 ale v\u017edycky jsem p\u0159ij\u00edmala sebe takovou, jak\u00e1 jsem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00e1m vr\u00e1sky, m\u011bkk\u00e9 b\u0159\u00ed\u0161ko a boky, kter\u00e9 b\u00fdvaly moj\u00ed p\u00fdchou, a te\u010f prozrazuj\u00ed l\u00e9ta, kter\u00e1 m\u00e1m za sebou. Ale to v\u0161echno je sou\u010d\u00e1st m\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu, m\u00e9ho \u017eivota. A m\u016fj man\u017eel mi v\u017edycky \u0159\u00edkal, \u017ee jsem kr\u00e1sn\u00e1. I te\u010f, po p\u011btat\u0159iceti letech man\u017eelstv\u00ed, se na m\u011b d\u00edv\u00e1 tak, jako by m\u011b pr\u00e1v\u011b poznal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ale ned\u00e1vno se v\u0161echno zm\u011bnilo. Poprv\u00e9 v \u017eivot\u011b jsem se za\u010dala styd\u011bt sama za sebe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Za\u010dalo to nevinn\u011b \u2013 jednou fotkou. S man\u017eelem jsme jeli k mo\u0159i, vz\u00e1cn\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost ut\u00e9ct od ka\u017edodenn\u00ed rutiny. St\u00e1li jsme na pl\u00e1\u017ei v plavk\u00e1ch, on m\u011b obj\u00edmal kolem pasu a j\u00e1 se sm\u00e1la. Cht\u011bla jsem si ten okam\u017eik uchovat a pod\u011blit se o n\u011bj s p\u0159\u00e1teli na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ano, v\u011bd\u011bla jsem, \u017ee plavky zv\u00fdrazn\u00ed v\u0161echny m\u00e9 nedostatky. Ale, proboha, to p\u0159ece nen\u00ed d\u016fvod se skr\u00fdvat!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Za p\u00e1r hodin se pod fotkou objevily lajky a mil\u00e9 koment\u00e1\u0159e: \u201eKr\u00e1sn\u00fd p\u00e1r!\u201c, \u201eJak n\u00e1dhern\u00e9, \u017ee jste spolu u\u017e tolik let!\u201c. Usm\u00edvala jsem se\u2026 dokud jsem neuvid\u011bla koment\u00e1\u0159 od sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed dcery.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Napsala: \u201eMami, v tv\u00e9m v\u011bku se takhle neobl\u00e9k\u00e1. A u\u017e v\u016fbec bys nem\u011bla ukazovat svoje \u0161peky. Rad\u0161i tu fotku sma\u017e.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ztuhla jsem. Jako by na m\u011b n\u011bkdo vylil k\u00fdbl ledov\u00e9 vody.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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To nebyl vtip. Bylo to my\u0161leno v\u00e1\u017en\u011b. Moje srdce se sev\u0159elo. J\u00e1 tu holku porodila, nespala jsem kv\u016fli n\u00ed noci, krmila jsem ji, vodila do \u0161koly, pom\u00e1hala j\u00ed dostat se na univerzitu\u2026 A te\u010f mi tohle nap\u00ed\u0161e.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V tu chv\u00edli jsem to nevydr\u017eela a ud\u011blala n\u011bco, \u010deho nelituji. Bohu\u017eel se te\u010f znovu u\u010d\u00edm p\u0159ij\u00edmat a milovat sebe samu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dlouho jsem se d\u00edvala na obrazovku. Pak jsem za\u010dala pomalu ps\u00e1t odpov\u011b\u010f:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 \u201eZlat\u00ed\u010dko, tohle jsou na\u0161e spole\u010dn\u00e9 geny. Za dvacet let bude\u0161 vypadat \u00fapln\u011b stejn\u011b. A douf\u00e1m, \u017ee do t\u00e9 doby bude\u0161 m\u00edt dost rozumu nestyd\u011bt se za svoje t\u011blo.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Odeslala jsem to. A jej\u00ed koment\u00e1\u0159 smazala.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ale to nesta\u010dilo. Rozhodla jsem se, \u017ee kdy\u017e si dovoluje m\u011b ve\u0159ejn\u011b poni\u017eovat, m\u00e1m pr\u00e1vo nastavit hranice. P\u0159estala jsem j\u00ed zvedat telefony. Kdy\u017e mi po p\u00e1r t\u00fddnech zavolala, \u017ee pot\u0159ebuje pen\u00edze, odpov\u011bd\u011bla jsem chladn\u011b:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 \u201ePromi\u0148, v\u0161echno jsem u\u017e utratila za j\u00eddlo. Odtud m\u00e1m ty svoje tlust\u00e9 boky.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Urazila se. Ale up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b \u2013 bylo mi to jedno. Mo\u017en\u00e1 jsem to p\u0159ehnala, ale tehdy jsem chr\u00e1nila samu sebe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A ano, od t\u00e9 doby se p\u0159istihuji, \u017ee se d\u00edv\u00e1m do zrcadla kriticky. \u017de kdy\u017e si vezmu plavky, ob\u010das si b\u0159\u00ed\u0161ko rad\u0161i zakryju ru\u010dn\u00edkem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Zlob\u00edm se na sebe kv\u016fli tomu \u2013 proto\u017ee v\u00edm, \u017ee probl\u00e9m nen\u00ed v t\u011ble, ale v tom, \u017ee my \u017eeny p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \u010dasto dovolujeme ostatn\u00edm ur\u010dovat, jak m\u00e1me vypadat a jak se m\u00e1me chovat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pou\u010dila jsem svou dceru, ale zd\u00e1 se, \u017ee m\u011b samotnou je\u0161t\u011b \u010dek\u00e1 hlavn\u00ed lekce \u2013 znovu se p\u0159estat styd\u011bt za to, k\u00fdm jsem.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Nikdy jsem se nestyd\u011bla za sv\u016fj vzhled. Ano, je mi u\u017e \u0161edes\u00e1t, nejsem mlad\u00e1 d\u00edvka z ob\u00e1lky \u010dasopisu, moje postava m\u00e1 daleko k \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2928,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2927","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-1"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2927","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2927"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2927\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2929,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2927\/revisions\/2929"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2928"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2927"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2927"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2927"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}