{"id":381,"date":"2025-06-08T14:31:54","date_gmt":"2025-06-08T11:31:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/?p=381"},"modified":"2025-06-08T14:31:54","modified_gmt":"2025-06-08T11:31:54","slug":"tento-otec-s-vice-nez-240-tetovanimi-byl-odsuzovan-jako-monstrum-a-spatny-otec-kvuli-svemu-vzhledu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/?p=381","title":{"rendered":"Tento otec s v\u00edce ne\u017e 240 tetov\u00e1n\u00edmi byl odsuzov\u00e1n jako \u201emonstrum\u201c a \u201e\u0161patn\u00fd otec\u201c kv\u016fli sv\u00e9mu vzhledu."},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ve spole\u010dnosti, kde vzhled \u010dasto p\u0159evy\u0161uje charakter, se objevuj\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, kter\u00e9 bo\u0159\u00ed p\u0159edsudky. A pr\u00e1v\u011b toto je jeden z nich \u2013 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh Sylvaina, 39let\u00e9ho otce z Francie, jeho\u017e t\u011blo je pokryto v\u00edce ne\u017e 240 tetov\u00e1n\u00edmi, v\u010detn\u011b obli\u010deje, hlavy a dokonce i o\u010dn\u00edch bulv.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mnoz\u00ed ho odsuzuj\u00ed. Naz\u00fdvaj\u00ed ho \u201emonstrem\u201c, \u201e\u0161patn\u00fdm vzorem\u201c pro d\u011bti, \u201enebezpe\u010d\u00edm pro spole\u010dnost\u201c. Ale to, co ve\u0159ejnost \u010dasto nevid\u00ed, je skute\u010dn\u00fd, hluboce lidsk\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh ukryt\u00fd pod tou k\u016f\u017e\u00ed. P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh bolesti, p\u0159e\u017eit\u00ed, znovuzrozen\u00ed a l\u00e1sky, kter\u00e1 nezn\u00e1 hranice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Odsouzen podle vzhledu<\/strong>
Sylvain\u016fv ka\u017edodenn\u00ed \u017eivot je pln\u00fd pohled\u016f, tich\u00e9ho \u0161u\u0161k\u00e1n\u00ed, ned\u016fv\u011bry. V obchod\u011b, v parku, ve \u0161kole \u2013 lid\u00e9 reaguj\u00ed. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed rodi\u010de odtahuj\u00ed sv\u00e9 d\u011bti, jin\u00ed ho fot\u00ed nebo zesm\u011b\u0161\u0148uj\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eLid\u00e9 nevid\u00ed otce, nevid\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bka. Vid\u00ed jen mou k\u016f\u017ei. Jen to, co je jim zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Sylvain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To, co ale nev\u00ed, je, \u017ee p\u0159ed deseti lety jeho \u017eivot vypadal \u00fapln\u011b jinak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0159ed tetov\u00e1n\u00edmi: \u017eivot ve st\u00ednu<\/strong>
Sylvain byl d\u0159\u00edve \u201enorm\u00e1ln\u00edm\u201c \u010dlov\u011bkem podle v\u0161ech standard\u016f \u2013 pracoval v kancel\u00e1\u0159i, nosil ko\u0161ile, \u017eil klidn\u00fd, nen\u00e1padn\u00fd \u017eivot. Ale uvnit\u0159 byl pr\u00e1zdn\u00fd. Bojoval s depres\u00ed, \u00fazkost\u00ed a pocitem, \u017ee je neviditeln\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201e\u017dil jsem, ale nec\u00edtil jsem se \u017eiv\u00fd. Vid\u011bl jsem v zrcadle \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fdm jsem nebyl.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prvn\u00ed tetov\u00e1n\u00ed bylo osobn\u00ed terapi\u00ed. Ne pro upout\u00e1n\u00ed pozornosti, ale jako pokus z\u00edskat zp\u011bt sv\u016fj hlas, t\u011blo a identitu. V pr\u016fb\u011bhu let se tetov\u00e1n\u00ed stala pam\u011bt\u00ed na k\u016f\u017ei \u2013 ka\u017ed\u00e9 m\u00e1 sv\u016fj v\u00fdznam, ka\u017ed\u00e9 je sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed jeho cesty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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T\u011blo jako sv\u011bdectv\u00ed<\/strong>
Jeho prom\u011bna nenastala p\u0159es noc. Rozhodnut\u00ed nechat si potetovat obli\u010dej i o\u010di nebylo vzpourou, ale prohl\u00e1\u0161en\u00edm: \u201eTohle jsem j\u00e1, bez masek.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pro n\u011bkter\u00e9 je Sylvain\u016fv vzhled extr\u00e9mn\u00ed. Ale pro n\u011bj je to osvobozen\u00ed. M\u00edsto toho, aby se skr\u00fdval za spole\u010densky p\u0159ijateln\u00fdm vzhledem, rozhodl se \u017e\u00edt svou pravdu \u2013 viditeln\u011b a odv\u00e1\u017en\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Otec, kter\u00fd bo\u0159\u00ed stereotypy<\/strong>
To, co nejv\u00edc bo\u0159\u00ed p\u0159edsudky, je jeho role otce. Jeho sedmilet\u00fd syn Liam ho nevid\u00ed jako monstrum. Vid\u00ed t\u00e1tu, kter\u00fd ho miluje, \u010dte mu poh\u00e1dky, hraje si s n\u00edm a ut\u011b\u0161uje ho, kdy\u017e pl\u00e1\u010de.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eM\u00e9mu synovi je jedno, \u017ee m\u00e1m tetov\u00e1n\u00ed. Pro n\u011bj jsem t\u00e1ta, kter\u00fd je v\u017edycky nabl\u00edzku,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Sylvain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A zat\u00edmco n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 ho odsuzuj\u00ed z d\u00e1lky, on d\u00e1v\u00e1 cel\u00e9 sv\u00e9 srdce, trp\u011blivost a pozornost \u2013 n\u011bco, co nen\u00ed vid\u011bt na povrchu, ale c\u00edtit hluboko uvnit\u0159.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fotografie, kter\u00e1 \u0161okovala internet<\/strong>
Jedna fotografie \u2013 Sylvain v parku, jak obj\u00edm\u00e1 sv\u00e9ho syna \u2013 se stala vir\u00e1ln\u00ed. N\u011bkdo ji sd\u00edlel s titulkem: \u201eM\u011bl by takov\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk b\u00fdt otcem?\u201c Internet explodoval koment\u00e1\u0159i. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed ho podpo\u0159ili, ale mnoho lid\u00ed ho odsoudilo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sylvain neztichl. Odpov\u011bd\u011bl otev\u0159en\u00fdm dopisem:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eNeomlouv\u00e1m se za to, jak vypad\u00e1m. Jsem otec, kter\u00fd miluje sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b, naslouch\u00e1 mu a je v\u017edy p\u0159\u00edtomen. Pokud to nesta\u010d\u00ed k tomu, abych byl dobr\u00fdm otcem, mo\u017en\u00e1 se mus\u00ed zamyslet spole\u010dnost, ne j\u00e1.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hlas p\u0159ijet\u00ed<\/strong>
Od t\u00e9 chv\u00edle Sylvain za\u010dal ve\u0159ejn\u011b mluvit \u2013 na \u0161kol\u00e1ch, debat\u00e1ch, v m\u00e9di\u00edch. Stal se hlasem v\u0161ech, kte\u0159\u00ed se c\u00edt\u00ed odli\u0161n\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou souzeni jen podle vzhledu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Zalo\u017eil tak\u00e9 organizaci pro teenagery, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou ob\u011b\u0165mi \u0161ikany \u2013 kde skrze um\u011bn\u00ed, tetov\u00e1n\u00ed nebo hudbu mohou vyj\u00e1d\u0159it svou bolest a identitu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nejen otec \u2013 ale i inspirace<\/strong>
Sylvain nen\u00ed dokonal\u00fd. Ale je skute\u010dn\u00fd. P\u0159\u00edtomn\u00fd. Pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed. Laskav\u00fd. Je d\u016fkazem toho, \u017ee tetov\u00e1n\u00ed ned\u011blaj\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bka \u2013 srdce ano.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Ve spole\u010dnosti, kde vzhled \u010dasto p\u0159evy\u0161uje charakter, se objevuj\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, kter\u00e9 bo\u0159\u00ed p\u0159edsudky. A pr\u00e1v\u011b toto je jeden z nich \u2013 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh Sylvaina, \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":382,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-381","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-1"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/381","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=381"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/381\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":383,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/381\/revisions\/383"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/382"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=381"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=381"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=381"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}