{"id":4035,"date":"2025-11-30T21:32:22","date_gmt":"2025-11-30T18:32:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/?p=4035"},"modified":"2025-11-30T21:32:22","modified_gmt":"2025-11-30T18:32:22","slug":"muj-manzel-a-ja-jsme-spolu-prozili-35-let-je-mi-55-let-jemu-57-behem-techto-let-se-nam-narodili-syn-a-dve-uzasne-dcery-zvenci-nas-manzelsky-zivot-vypadal-dokonaly-ale-realita-byla-uplne-jin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/?p=4035","title":{"rendered":"\u00a0M\u016fj man\u017eel a j\u00e1 jsme spolu pro\u017eili 35 let. Je mi 55 let, jemu 57. B\u011bhem t\u011bchto let se n\u00e1m narodili syn a dv\u011b \u00fa\u017easn\u00e9 dcery. Zven\u010d\u00ed n\u00e1\u0161 man\u017eelsk\u00fd \u017eivot vypadal dokonal\u00fd, ale realita byla \u00fapln\u011b jin\u00e1."},"content":{"rendered":"\n

M\u016fj man\u017eel t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 nikdy nepracoval. Ob\u010das si p\u0159ivyd\u011blal jako automechanik u p\u0159\u00edtele, ale v\u011bt\u0161inu \u010dasu sed\u011bl u televize a neust\u00e1le si st\u011b\u017eoval \u2013 na vl\u00e1du, na nov\u00e9 auto souseda, a kritizoval m\u011b kv\u016fli nedostatku po\u0159\u00e1dku v dom\u00e1cnosti.Tyto st\u00ed\u017enosti se staly ka\u017edodenn\u00ed rutinou a j\u00e1 je p\u0159estala br\u00e1t v\u00e1\u017en\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kdy\u017e m\u011b pak opustil kv\u016fli jin\u00e9 \u017een\u011b, byl to pro n\u00e1s v\u0161echny obrovsk\u00fd \u0161ok. Nov\u00e1 partnerka m\u011bla sotva \u010dty\u0159icet let. Bol\u00ed m\u011b to dodnes p\u0159iznat, ale ud\u011blala jsem n\u011bco ne\u010dekan\u00e9ho \u2013 n\u011bco, co by m\u011b d\u0159\u00edve nikdy nenapadlo \u2013 a co nav\u017edy zm\u011bnilo m\u016fj \u017eivot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00edsto toho, abych se ut\u00e1p\u011bla v \u017ealu a sebel\u00edtosti, jsem se rozhodla vz\u00edt \u017eivot do vlastn\u00edch rukou. Ode\u0161la jsem ze zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00e9 mi u\u017e d\u00e1vno nep\u0159in\u00e1\u0161elo radost ani pocit uspokojen\u00ed. Prodala jsem star\u00fd n\u00e1bytek, kter\u00fd se nahromadil za desetilet\u00ed, a dokonce i \u010d\u00e1st \u0161perk\u016f, kter\u00e9 byly symbolem na\u0161\u00ed spole\u010dn\u00e9 minulosti. Pocit svobody byl ohromuj\u00edc\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prvn\u00edm krokem bylo, \u017ee jsem se p\u0159ihl\u00e1sila na kurzy, o kter\u00fdch jsem v\u017edy snila, ale nikdy jsem nem\u011bla odvahu \u2013 fotografii a psychologick\u00e9 poradenstv\u00ed. Ka\u017ed\u00fd den jsem se u\u010dila nov\u00e9 v\u011bci, potk\u00e1vala lidi, kte\u0159\u00ed m\u011b inspirovali, a c\u00edtila, jak se minulost postupn\u011b vytr\u00e1c\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00e9 d\u011bti byly zpo\u010d\u00e1tku v \u0161oku. Syn \u0159ekl: \u201eU\u017e t\u011b skoro nepozn\u00e1v\u00e1m,\u201c a nejmlad\u0161\u00ed dcera plakala, kdy\u017e vid\u011bla, jak jsem \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1 a bez obav. Ale b\u011bhem n\u011bkolika m\u011bs\u00edc\u016f si v\u0161imli, \u017ee jsem opravdu \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1, a toto \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed se stalo naka\u017eliv\u00fdm. Dokonce i m\u016fj b\u00fdval\u00fd man\u017eel se sna\u017eil volat, ale j\u00e1 u\u017e nezvedala telefon. Ne proto, \u017ee bych byla zl\u00e1, ale proto\u017ee u\u017e jsem nepot\u0159ebovala dr\u00e1mu ani st\u00ed\u017enosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Pak se stalo n\u011bco \u00fapln\u011b ne\u010dekan\u00e9ho. Jeden z m\u00fdch u\u010ditel\u016f na fotografick\u00fdch kurzech, zn\u00e1m\u00fd fotograf, si v\u0161iml m\u00e9 pr\u00e1ce a nab\u00eddl mi st\u00e1\u017e ve sv\u00e9m studiu. Moje v\u00e1\u0161e\u0148 se prom\u011bnila v pr\u00e1ci, kter\u00e1 mi p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161ela nejen pen\u00edze, ale i respekt. Lid\u00e9 mi za\u010dali d\u011blat komplimenty: \u201eVypad\u00e1\u0161 mlad\u011b a \u0161\u0165astn\u011b,\u201c \u201eTv\u016fj pohled z\u00e1\u0159\u00ed.\u201c A j\u00e1 si uv\u011bdomila, \u017ee m\u011b te\u010f u\u017e nic nem\u016f\u017ee zastavit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nejv\u00edce \u0161okuj\u00edc\u00ed bylo, kdy\u017e se po roce m\u016fj b\u00fdval\u00fd man\u017eel vr\u00e1til \u2013 ale byl \u00fapln\u011b jin\u00fd. Vid\u011bl mou novou \u017eivotn\u00ed cestu, m\u00e9 \u00fasp\u011bchy a m\u00e9 vnit\u0159n\u00ed sv\u011btlo. Pod\u00edvala jsem se na n\u011bj a pochopila, \u017ee m\u011b u\u017e nikdy nez\u00edsk\u00e1 zp\u011bt. Nec\u00edtila jsem hn\u011bv ani touhu po pomst\u011b \u2013 jen tichou, hlubokou vd\u011b\u010dnost, proto\u017ee jeho zrada byla impulzem m\u00e9ho nov\u00e9ho \u017eivota.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nav\u00e1zala jsem nov\u00e9 p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed, n\u011bkter\u00e1 se prom\u011bnila v opravdovou l\u00e1sku. Ale to u\u017e je jin\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh. Te\u010f \u017eiji naplno: u\u010d\u00edm se, rozv\u00edj\u00edm, cestuji a vychutn\u00e1v\u00e1m si ka\u017ed\u00fd okam\u017eik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u011bkdy se vrac\u00edm my\u0161lenkami k dn\u016fm, kdy jsem sed\u011bla u okna, plakala a myslela, \u017ee m\u016fj \u017eivot skon\u010dil. Te\u010f u\u017e v\u00edm, \u017ee nejtvrd\u0161\u00ed r\u00e1ny osudu jsou \u010dasto pr\u00e1v\u011b ty, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1s donut\u00ed naj\u00edt sami sebe. Svoboda a \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed nez\u00e1vis\u00ed na nikom jin\u00e9m \u2013 m\u016f\u017eeme si je vytvo\u0159it sami, i kdy\u017e se zd\u00e1, \u017ee cel\u00fd sv\u011bt je proti n\u00e1m.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"M\u016fj man\u017eel t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 nikdy nepracoval. Ob\u010das si p\u0159ivyd\u011blal jako automechanik u p\u0159\u00edtele, ale v\u011bt\u0161inu \u010dasu sed\u011bl u televize a neust\u00e1le si st\u011b\u017eoval \u2013 \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4036,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4035","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-1"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4035","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4035"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4035\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4037,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4035\/revisions\/4037"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4036"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4035"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4035"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4035"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}