{"id":4038,"date":"2025-11-30T21:34:15","date_gmt":"2025-11-30T18:34:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/?p=4038"},"modified":"2025-11-30T21:34:15","modified_gmt":"2025-11-30T18:34:15","slug":"pred-tydnem-jsme-se-s-manzelem-vratili-z-dovolene-na-kterou-jsme-se-tesili-snad-cely-rok-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/?p=4038","title":{"rendered":"P\u0159ed t\u00fddnem jsme se s man\u017eelem vr\u00e1tili z dovolen\u00e9, na kterou jsme se t\u011b\u0161ili snad cel\u00fd rok."},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Byla to na\u0161e prvn\u00ed cesta jen ve dvou \u2013 bez d\u011bt\u00ed, bez vnou\u010dat, bez povinnost\u00ed. Je n\u00e1m u\u017e p\u0159es \u0161edes\u00e1t, ale u mo\u0159e jsme se c\u00edtili znovu jako zamilovan\u00ed dvac\u00e1tn\u00edci.
Ka\u017ed\u00e9 r\u00e1no jsme vst\u00e1vali pozd\u011b, pili k\u00e1vu na terase s v\u00fdhledem na oce\u00e1n a dr\u017eeli se za ruce, jako bychom se teprve poznali.Jednoho dne jsem m\u011bla na sob\u011b b\u00edl\u00e9 bikiny, kter\u00e9 jsem si koupila jen p\u00e1r dn\u00ed p\u0159ed odjezdem. M\u011bla jsem trochu obavy, jestli si je ve sv\u00e9m v\u011bku mohu dovolit, ale man\u017eel se na m\u011b pod\u00edval tak, jak se na m\u011b kdysi d\u00edval, a v\u0161echny pochyby zmizely. \u0158ekl mi: \u201eVypad\u00e1\u0161 n\u00e1dhern\u011b.\u201c
V tu chv\u00edli k n\u00e1m p\u0159ib\u011bhla mal\u00e1 hol\u010di\u010dka, vyt\u00e1hla telefon a vyfotila n\u00e1s, jak se obj\u00edm\u00e1me na pozad\u00ed tyrkysov\u00e9ho mo\u0159e.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Po n\u00e1vratu dom\u016f jsem ten sn\u00edmek sd\u00edlela na Facebooku. C\u00edtila jsem se \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1 a hrd\u00e1 \u2013 kone\u010dn\u011b jeden okam\u017eik \u010dist\u00e9 radosti, kter\u00fd jsem cht\u011bla uchovat. Koment\u00e1\u0159e byly pln\u00e9 l\u00e1sky:
\u201eJste tak kr\u00e1sn\u00fd p\u00e1r!\u201c
\u201eTakhle vypad\u00e1 opravdov\u00e1 l\u00e1ska!\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ale mezi t\u011bmi v\u0159el\u00fdmi slovy byl jeden koment\u00e1\u0159, kter\u00fd mi vyrazil dech.
Napsala ho moje snacha.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eJak se m\u016f\u017ee ukazovat v plavk\u00e1ch s t\u00edm sv\u00fdm star\u00fdm t\u011blem? A je\u0161t\u011b se l\u00edbat v jej\u00edm v\u011bku? To je nechutn\u00e9. Up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b, vypad\u00e1 stra\u0161n\u011b. lol.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Z\u00edrala jsem na obrazovku. Nemohla jsem tomu uv\u011b\u0159it. Po chv\u00edli koment\u00e1\u0159 smazala, ale j\u00e1 u\u017e ho m\u011bla ulo\u017een\u00fd.
C\u00edtila jsem hanbu, pak smutek\u2026 a nakonec n\u011bco siln\u011bj\u0161\u00edho \u2013 vztek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jak si dovoluje? Ta d\u00edvka, kterou jsem p\u0159ijala jako dceru, kter\u00e1 p\u0159i\u0161la do m\u00e9 rodiny s \u00fasm\u011bvem a sliby, \u017ee bude milovat m\u00e9ho syna, m\u011b te\u010f ur\u00e1\u017e\u00ed kv\u016fli m\u00e9mu t\u011blu?
T\u011blu, kter\u00e9 dalo \u017eivot jej\u00edmu man\u017eelovi, t\u011blu, kter\u00e9 p\u0159e\u017eilo roky pr\u00e1ce, nemoc\u00ed, bolesti i l\u00e1sky?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Druh\u00fd den r\u00e1no jsem si obl\u00e9kla znovu ty b\u00edl\u00e9 bikiny. Vy\u0161la jsem na zahradu, postavila se na slunce a poprosila man\u017eela, aby m\u011b vyfotil.
\u017d\u00e1dn\u00fd make-up, \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd filtr, \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 p\u00f3za \u2013 jen j\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fotku jsem nahr\u00e1la s textem:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201eToto t\u011blo \u017eilo, porodilo, milovalo a trp\u011blo. Je skute\u010dn\u00e9. Pokud se n\u011bkomu nel\u00edb\u00ed, probl\u00e9m nen\u00ed ve mn\u011b, ale v n\u011bm.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u011bhem p\u00e1r hodin se p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvek roz\u0161\u00ed\u0159il. Za\u010daly p\u0159ich\u00e1zet stovky koment\u00e1\u0159\u016f.
\u201eJste n\u00e1dhern\u00e1.\u201c
\u201eD\u011bkuji, \u017ee jste uk\u00e1zala, \u017ee kr\u00e1sa m\u00e1 i vr\u00e1sky.\u201c
\u201eKv\u016fli v\u00e1m jsem si zase obl\u00e9kla plavky.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ve\u010der se objevil koment\u00e1\u0159 od m\u00e9ho syna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eMami, jsi neuv\u011b\u0159iteln\u00e1. Omlouv\u00e1m se, \u017ee jsem ji nezastavil d\u0159\u00edv.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Plakala jsem. Ne proto, \u017ee bych byla zran\u011bn\u00e1, ale proto, \u017ee jsem c\u00edtila hrdost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dva dny nato mi snacha zavolala. Jej\u00ed hlas byl tich\u00fd, zlomen\u00fd.
\u2014 J\u00e1\u2026 j\u00e1 necht\u011bla, aby to dopadlo takhle. Byla jsem jen na\u0161tvan\u00e1. Vy v\u017edycky vypad\u00e1te tak sebejist\u011b, a j\u00e1 se vedle v\u00e1s c\u00edt\u00edm mal\u00e1. Promi\u0148te.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Chv\u00edli jsem ml\u010dela a pak \u0159ekla:
\u2014 V\u00ed\u0161, jistota nep\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed s ml\u00e1d\u00edm ani s dokonalost\u00ed. P\u0159ijde tehdy, kdy\u017e se p\u0159estane\u0161 b\u00e1t b\u00fdt sama sebou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fotku jsem nesmazala. P\u0159idala jsem dal\u0161\u00ed \u2013 kde jsme s man\u017eelem sed\u011bli na lavi\u010dce u mo\u0159e a dr\u017eeli se za ruce. Lid\u00e9 psali:
\u201eTohle je skute\u010dn\u00e1 l\u00e1ska.\u201c
A j\u00e1 v\u011bd\u011bla, \u017ee maj\u00ed pravdu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kdy\u017e se dnes pod\u00edv\u00e1m do zrcadla, nevid\u00edm vr\u00e1sky ani v\u011bk. Vid\u00edm s\u00edlu. Vid\u00edm \u017eenu, kter\u00e1 pro\u0161la v\u0161\u00edm a p\u0159esto se usm\u00edv\u00e1.
Ano, je mi p\u0159es \u0161edes\u00e1t. Ale st\u00e1le miluji, sn\u00edm a sm\u011bji se. A nos\u00edm sv\u00e9 b\u00edl\u00e9 bikiny, proto\u017ee u\u017e se nem\u00e1m za co styd\u011bt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A mo\u017en\u00e1 pr\u00e1v\u011b to je ten nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed \u0161ok pro tento sv\u011bt \u2013 \u017ee n\u011bkdo m\u00e1 odvahu b\u00fdt opravdov\u00fd.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Byla to na\u0161e prvn\u00ed cesta jen ve dvou \u2013 bez d\u011bt\u00ed, bez vnou\u010dat, bez povinnost\u00ed. Je n\u00e1m u\u017e p\u0159es \u0161edes\u00e1t, ale u mo\u0159e \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4039,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4038","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-1"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4038","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4038"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4038\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4040,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4038\/revisions\/4040"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4039"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4038"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4038"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4038"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}