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<\/figure>\n\n\n\n\u201eJ\u00e1 u\u017e plat\u00edm dost,\u201c pokra\u010doval. \u201eKupujeme pleny, ml\u00e9ko, v\u00fdbavu. Nemocnici platit nebudu. Ty jsi tam byla.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V tu chv\u00edli mi do\u0161lo, \u017ee to mysl\u00ed v\u00e1\u017en\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eJ\u00e1 jsem porodila na\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b,\u201c \u0159ekla jsem. \u201eNebyla jsem na wellness pobytu.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pokr\u010dil rameny. \u201eTo u\u017e je mezi tebou a nemocnic\u00ed.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ta slova bolela v\u00edc ne\u017e samotn\u00fd porod. Ne kv\u016fli pen\u011bz\u016fm. Ale kv\u016fli tomu, co odhalila. Vedle m\u011b nest\u00e1l partner. St\u00e1l tam \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00fd pova\u017eoval moje t\u011blo, mou bolest a m\u00e9 riziko za n\u011bco, co se ho net\u00fdk\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tu noc jsem nespala. Ne kv\u016fli d\u00edt\u011bti, ale kv\u016fli my\u0161lenk\u00e1m. P\u0159em\u00fd\u0161lela jsem, kolikr\u00e1t jsem ustoupila. Kolikr\u00e1t jsem zaplatila n\u011bco sama, proto\u017ee to bylo \u201erychlej\u0161\u00ed\u201c. Kolikr\u00e1t jsem sly\u0161ela, \u017ee p\u0159eh\u00e1n\u00edm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A pak jsem si \u0159ekla: dob\u0159e. Pokud chce mluvit jazykem \u00fa\u010dt\u016f a laskavost\u00ed, budu ho mluvit tak\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Za\u010dala jsem si ps\u00e1t seznam. Ne ze vzteku, ale systematicky. T\u011bhotensk\u00e9 oble\u010den\u00ed. Vitam\u00edny. L\u00e9ky. Soukrom\u00e1 vy\u0161et\u0159en\u00ed. Cesty k l\u00e9ka\u0159i. Hodiny str\u00e1ven\u00e9 na pohotovosti. Dny pracovn\u00ed neschopnosti. No\u010dn\u00ed vst\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Kojen\u00ed. Zotavov\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
U ka\u017ed\u00e9 polo\u017eky jsem si poznamenala: \u201ePoskytnut\u00e1 laskavost.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
O t\u00fdden pozd\u011bji, kdy\u017e sed\u011bl u stolu s k\u00e1vou a c\u00edtil se op\u011bt sebejist\u011b, jsem mu polo\u017eila p\u0159ed n\u011bj ob\u00e1lku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eCo to je?\u201c zeptal se.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eM\u016fj \u00fa\u010det,\u201c odpov\u011bd\u011bla jsem klidn\u011b. \u201eZa slu\u017eby, kter\u00e9 jsem poskytla.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Za\u010dal se sm\u00e1t. Otev\u0159el ob\u00e1lku. Sm\u00edch mu postupn\u011b ztuhl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Byly tam polo\u017eky rozepsan\u00e9 p\u0159esn\u011b tak, jak to d\u011bl\u00e1 on. Such\u00fd jazyk. \u010c\u00e1stky. Datum. Sou\u010det.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eTo si d\u011bl\u00e1\u0161 legraci?\u201c vydechl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eNe,\u201c odpov\u011bd\u011bla jsem. \u201eJen jsem si vzala p\u0159\u00edklad. Kdy\u017e je porod laskavost, pak je laskavost i v\u0161echno ostatn\u00ed.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Za\u010dal protestovat. Zvy\u0161oval hlas. \u0158\u00edkal, \u017ee to p\u0159eh\u00e1n\u00edm, \u017ee to tak nemyslel, \u017ee jsem to \u0161patn\u011b pochopila.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eMo\u017en\u00e1,\u201c \u0159ekla jsem. \u201eAle p\u0159esn\u011b takhle to zn\u011blo.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Poprv\u00e9 od porodu jsem vid\u011bla nejistotu v jeho o\u010d\u00edch. Uv\u011bdomil si, \u017ee slova maj\u00ed v\u00e1hu. \u017de se nedaj\u00ed vz\u00edt zp\u011bt jen proto, \u017ee se mu te\u010f nehod\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00da\u010det z nemocnice jsme nakonec zaplatili spole\u010dn\u011b. Ne proto, \u017ee bych ustoupila, ale proto, \u017ee pochopil, \u017ee partnerstv\u00ed nen\u00ed \u00fa\u010detn\u00ed hra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A j\u00e1 jsem se nau\u010dila je\u0161t\u011b jednu v\u011bc:
Nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed chyba, kterou m\u016f\u017ee \u017eena po porodu ud\u011blat, nen\u00ed slabost. Je to ticho.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Porod trval t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 dvacet hodin. \u010cas se rozpadl na jednotliv\u00e9 vlny bolesti a vy\u010derp\u00e1n\u00ed, mezi nimi\u017e jsem jen mlhav\u011b vn\u00edmala sv\u011bt kolem sebe. \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4367,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4366","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-1"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4366","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4366"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4366\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4368,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4366\/revisions\/4368"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4367"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4366"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4366"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4366"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}