{"id":6186,"date":"2026-02-27T20:07:54","date_gmt":"2026-02-27T17:07:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/?p=6186"},"modified":"2026-02-27T20:07:54","modified_gmt":"2026-02-27T17:07:54","slug":"je-mi-ctyricet-sest-pracuji-sama-na-sebe-jsem-financne-nezavisla-nikdy-jsem-nebyla-vdana-a-nepovazuji-to-za-tragedii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/?p=6186","title":{"rendered":"Je mi \u010dty\u0159icet \u0161est. Pracuji sama na sebe, jsem finan\u010dn\u011b nez\u00e1visl\u00e1, nikdy jsem nebyla vdan\u00e1 a nepova\u017euji to za trag\u00e9dii."},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Je mi \u010dty\u0159icet \u0161est. Pracuji sama na sebe, jsem finan\u010dn\u011b nez\u00e1visl\u00e1, nikdy jsem nebyla vdan\u00e1 a nepova\u017euji to za trag\u00e9dii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ned\u00e1vno jsem se sezn\u00e1mila s Antonem. Je mu pades\u00e1t dev\u011bt. Na fotografii p\u016fsobil seri\u00f3zn\u011b \u2014 oblek, \u0161ediny na sp\u00e1nc\u00edch, sebejist\u00fd pohled. V komunikaci byl zdvo\u0159il\u00fd a kultivovan\u00fd. P\u016fsobil d\u016fstojn\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0159ed na\u0161\u00ed sch\u016fzkou jsem ze zv\u011bdavosti zadala jeho jm\u00e9no do vyhled\u00e1va\u010de a narazila na jeho profil na seznamce. St\u00e1lo tam jasn\u011b:
\u201eHled\u00e1m man\u017eelku ve v\u011bku 25\u201332 let. Je mi 59.\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0159ekvapilo m\u011b to, ale rozhodla jsem se zeptat p\u0159\u00edmo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Na sch\u016fzku p\u0159i\u0161el p\u0159esn\u011b. Upraven\u00fd, elegantn\u00ed, s drah\u00fdmi hodinkami. Po pracovn\u00ed \u010d\u00e1sti se rozhovor sto\u010dil k osobn\u00edmu \u017eivotu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eHled\u00e1m v\u00e1\u017en\u00fd vztah,\u201c \u0159ekl.
\u201eI p\u0159es seznamky?\u201c zeptala jsem se.
\u201eAno. V\u00edm p\u0159esn\u011b, koho chci, proto m\u00e1m nastaven\u00fd v\u011bkov\u00fd filtr.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pod\u00edvala jsem se na n\u011bj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eOpravdu hled\u00e1te \u017eenu do t\u0159iceti dvou let? Je to pro v\u00e1s z\u00e1sadn\u00ed?\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eAno,\u201c odpov\u011bd\u011bl klidn\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201ePro\u010d?\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Napil se k\u00e1vy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eS mlad\u0161\u00edmi je to jednodu\u0161\u0161\u00ed. Ne\u017eij\u00ed minulost\u00ed, tolik si nest\u011b\u017euj\u00ed, berou \u017eivot leh\u010deji.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Musela jsem se pousm\u00e1t \u2014 a z\u00e1rove\u0148 mi to bylo l\u00edto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eTak\u017ee \u017eeny va\u0161eho v\u011bku si podle v\u00e1s jen st\u011b\u017euj\u00ed?\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eVe v\u011bt\u0161in\u011b p\u0159\u00edpad\u016f ano. Maj\u00ed p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 mnoho zku\u0161enost\u00ed. Je to slo\u017eit\u00e9.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Odlo\u017eila jsem l\u017ei\u010dku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eVy m\u00e1te za sebou dva rozvody, n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 podnik\u00e1n\u00ed a zdravotn\u00ed pot\u00ed\u017ee. Kdy\u017e mluv\u00edte o probl\u00e9mech vy, jsou to fakta. Kdy\u017e o nich mluv\u00ed \u017eena, jsou to st\u00ed\u017enosti?\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Zamra\u010dil se.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eJ\u00e1 jen chci pohodl\u00ed.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201ePohodl\u00ed znamen\u00e1 partnerku, kter\u00e1 se nept\u00e1 a neodporuje?\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eP\u0159eh\u00e1n\u00edte,\u201c \u0159ekl podr\u00e1\u017ed\u011bn\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eNe. Nechcete \u017eenu sv\u00e9ho v\u011bku, proto\u017ee ta by byla rovnocenn\u00fdm partnerem.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00edm n\u00e1\u0161 rozhovor prakticky skon\u010dil. Rozhodl se, \u017ee spolupracovat nebudeme. Zaplatila jsem si svou k\u00e1vu a ode\u0161la.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Doma jsem o tom dlouho p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161lela. Je mi \u010dty\u0159icet \u0161est. M\u00e1m vr\u00e1sky i \u0161ediny. M\u00e1m zku\u0161enosti \u2014 dobr\u00e9 i t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9. V\u00edm, co znamen\u00e1 n\u00e9st odpov\u011bdnost a zvednout se po p\u00e1du.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ne\u017eiji minulost\u00ed. \u017diji realitou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A pochopila jsem jednu v\u011bc:
on nehled\u00e1 mlad\u0161\u00ed \u017eenu.
Hled\u00e1 iluzi vlastn\u00ed mladosti.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Je mi \u010dty\u0159icet \u0161est. Pracuji sama na sebe, jsem finan\u010dn\u011b nez\u00e1visl\u00e1, nikdy jsem nebyla vdan\u00e1 a nepova\u017euji to za trag\u00e9dii. Ned\u00e1vno jsem se \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6187,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6186","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-1"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6186","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6186"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6186\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6188,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6186\/revisions\/6188"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/6187"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6186"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6186"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6186"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}