{"id":714,"date":"2025-06-22T18:48:33","date_gmt":"2025-06-22T15:48:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/?p=714"},"modified":"2025-06-22T18:48:33","modified_gmt":"2025-06-22T15:48:33","slug":"tento-otec-s-vice-nez-240-tetovanimi-byl-oznacovan-za-monstrum-a-spatneho-otce-kvuli-svemu-vzhledu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/?p=714","title":{"rendered":"Tento otec, s v\u00edce ne\u017e 240 tetov\u00e1n\u00edmi, byl ozna\u010dov\u00e1n za \u201emonstrum\u201c a \u201e\u0161patn\u00e9ho otce\u201c kv\u016fli sv\u00e9mu vzhledu…"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ve spole\u010dnosti, kde je vzhled \u010dasto up\u0159ednost\u0148ov\u00e1n p\u0159ed charakterem, se objevuj\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, kter\u00e9 bouraj\u00ed p\u0159edsudky. Toto je pr\u00e1v\u011b jeden z nich \u2013 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh Sylvaina, otce z Francie, 39 let, jeho\u017e t\u011blo je zcela pokryto v\u00edce ne\u017e 240 tetov\u00e1n\u00edmi, v\u010detn\u011b obli\u010deje, hlavy a dokonce i o\u010dn\u00edch bulv.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mnoz\u00ed ho odsuzuj\u00ed. Naz\u00fdvaj\u00ed ho \u201emonstrem\u201c, \u201e\u0161patn\u00fdm p\u0159\u00edkladem\u201c pro d\u011bti, \u201ehrozbou pro spole\u010dnost\u201c. Ale to, co ve\u0159ejnost \u010dasto nevid\u00ed, je skute\u010dn\u00fd, hluboce lidsk\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh ukryt\u00fd pod tou k\u016f\u017e\u00ed. P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh bolesti, p\u0159e\u017eit\u00ed, znovuzrozen\u00ed a l\u00e1sky bez hranic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Odsouzen\u00fd podle vzhledu<\/strong>
Sylvain\u016fv ka\u017edodenn\u00ed \u017eivot je pln\u00fd pohled\u016f, tich\u00e9ho \u0161ept\u00e1n\u00ed, podez\u0159\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed. V obchod\u011b, v parku, ve \u0161kole \u2013 lid\u00e9 reaguj\u00ed. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed rodi\u010de odtahuj\u00ed sv\u00e9 d\u011bti stranou, jin\u00ed si ho nat\u00e1\u010dej\u00ed nebo se mu posm\u00edvaj\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eLid\u00e9 nevid\u00ed otce, nevid\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bka. Vid\u00ed jen mou k\u016f\u017ei. Jen to, co je jim zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Sylvain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ale to, co nev\u011bd\u00ed, je, \u017ee p\u0159ed deseti lety jeho \u017eivot vypadal \u00fapln\u011b jinak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0159ed tetov\u00e1n\u00edm: \u017eivot ve st\u00ednu<\/strong>
Sylvain byl d\u0159\u00edve \u201enorm\u00e1ln\u00edm\u201c \u010dlov\u011bkem podle v\u0161ech standard\u016f \u2013 pracoval v kancel\u00e1\u0159i, nosil ko\u0161ile, vedl klidn\u00fd a nen\u00e1padn\u00fd \u017eivot. Ale uvnit\u0159 byl pr\u00e1zdn\u00fd. Bojoval s depres\u00ed, \u00fazkost\u00ed a pocitem neviditelnosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201e\u017dil jsem, ale nec\u00edtil jsem se \u017eiv\u00fd. Vid\u011bl jsem v zrcadle \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fdm jsem nebyl.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Prvn\u00ed tetov\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159i\u0161lo jako osobn\u00ed terapie. Ne proto, aby upoutal pozornost, ale jako pokus z\u00edskat zp\u011bt sv\u016fj hlas, t\u011blo, identitu. Postupem let se tetov\u00e1n\u00ed stala pam\u011bt\u00ed na k\u016f\u017ei \u2013 ka\u017ed\u00e9 m\u00e1 v\u00fdznam, ka\u017ed\u00e9 je sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed jeho cesty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u011blo jako sv\u011bdectv\u00ed<\/strong>
Jeho prom\u011bna se nestala p\u0159es noc. Rozhodnut\u00ed tetovat si obli\u010dej i o\u010di nebylo aktem vzdoru, ale prohl\u00e1\u0161en\u00edm: \u201eTohle jsem j\u00e1, bez masek.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pro n\u011bkter\u00e9 je Sylvain\u016fv vzhled extr\u00e9mn\u00ed. Ale pro n\u011bj to je osvobozen\u00ed. M\u00edsto toho, aby se skr\u00fdval za spole\u010densky p\u0159ijateln\u00fdm vzhledem, rozhodl se \u017e\u00edt svou pravdu \u2013 viditelnou a odv\u00e1\u017enou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Otec, kter\u00fd bo\u0159\u00ed stereotypy<\/strong>
To, co nejv\u00edce bo\u0159\u00ed p\u0159edsudky, je jeho role otce. Jeho sedmilet\u00fd syn Liam ho nevid\u00ed jako monstrum. Vid\u00ed t\u00e1tu, kter\u00fd ho miluje, \u010dte mu poh\u00e1dky, hraje si s n\u00edm a ut\u011b\u0161uje ho, kdy\u017e pl\u00e1\u010de.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eM\u00e9mu synovi jsou moje tetov\u00e1n\u00ed \u00fapln\u011b jedno. Pro n\u011bj jsem t\u00e1ta, kter\u00fd je tu v\u017edy pro n\u011bj,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Sylvain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A zat\u00edmco n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 ho odsuzuj\u00ed z d\u00e1lky, pr\u00e1v\u011b on d\u00e1v\u00e1 ve\u0161kerou svou l\u00e1sku, trp\u011blivost a pozornost \u2013 n\u011bco, co nen\u00ed vid\u011bt na povrchu, ale c\u00edt\u00ed se hluboko uvnit\u0159.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fotografie, kter\u00e1 \u0161okovala internet<\/strong>
Jedna fotografie \u2013 Sylvain v parku, jak obj\u00edm\u00e1 sv\u00e9ho syna \u2013 se stala vir\u00e1ln\u00ed. N\u011bkdo ji sd\u00edlel s titulkem: \u201eM\u011bl by b\u00fdt takov\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk otcem?\u201c Internet explodoval koment\u00e1\u0159i. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed ho podpo\u0159ili, ale mnoz\u00ed ho ost\u0159e odsoudili.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sylvain nez\u016fstal zticha. Odpov\u011bd\u011bl otev\u0159en\u00fdm dopisem:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eNeomlouv\u00e1m se za to, jak vypad\u00e1m. Jsem otec, kter\u00fd miluje sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b, kter\u00fd ho poslouch\u00e1, kter\u00fd je v\u017edy p\u0159\u00edtomen. Pokud to nesta\u010d\u00ed k tomu, abych byl dobr\u00fdm otcem, pak by se mo\u017en\u00e1 m\u011blo zamyslet spole\u010dnost, ne j\u00e1.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hlas p\u0159ijet\u00ed<\/strong>
Od toho momentu za\u010dal Sylvain ve\u0159ejn\u011b vystupovat \u2013 ve \u0161kol\u00e1ch, na debat\u00e1ch, v m\u00e9di\u00edch. Stal se hlasem v\u0161ech, kte\u0159\u00ed se c\u00edt\u00ed jin\u00ed, t\u011bch, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou odsuzov\u00e1ni pouze podle vzhledu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Zalo\u017eil i organizaci pro teenagery, kte\u0159\u00ed se stali ob\u011bt\u00ed \u0161ikany, kde skrze um\u011bn\u00ed, tetov\u00e1n\u00ed nebo hudbu mohou vyj\u00e1d\u0159it svou bolest a identitu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nejen otec \u2013 ale i inspirace<\/strong>
Sylvain nen\u00ed dokonal\u00fd. Ale je opravdov\u00fd. P\u0159\u00edtomn\u00fd. Pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed. Miluj\u00edc\u00ed. Je d\u016fkazem toho, \u017ee tetov\u00e1n\u00ed ned\u011blaj\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bka \u2013 srdce ano.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Ve spole\u010dnosti, kde je vzhled \u010dasto up\u0159ednost\u0148ov\u00e1n p\u0159ed charakterem, se objevuj\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, kter\u00e9 bouraj\u00ed p\u0159edsudky. Toto je pr\u00e1v\u011b jeden z nich \u2013 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":715,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-714","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-1"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/714","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=714"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/714\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":716,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/714\/revisions\/716"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/715"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=714"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=714"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=714"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}