{"id":8715,"date":"2026-06-27T20:23:58","date_gmt":"2026-06-27T17:23:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/?p=8715"},"modified":"2026-06-27T20:23:58","modified_gmt":"2026-06-27T17:23:58","slug":"muj-manzel-je-ve-vegetativnim-stavu-ji-a-spi-na-jednom-miste-uz-deset-let-a-ja-se-o-nej-staram-bez-jedine-stiznosti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/?p=8715","title":{"rendered":"M\u016fj man\u017eel je ve vegetativn\u00edm stavu, j\u00ed a sp\u00ed na jednom m\u00edst\u011b u\u017e deset let a j\u00e1 se o n\u011bj star\u00e1m bez jedin\u00e9 st\u00ed\u017enosti."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u016fj man\u017eel je ve vegetativn\u00edm stavu, j\u00ed a sp\u00ed na jednom m\u00edst\u011b u\u017e deset let a j\u00e1 se o n\u011bj star\u00e1m bez jedin\u00e9 st\u00ed\u017enosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u016fj man\u017eel byl deset let ochrnut\u00fd na jednu stranu t\u011bla, po nehod\u011b na feder\u00e1ln\u00ed d\u00e1lnici upout\u00e1n nejprve na l\u016f\u017eko a pot\u00e9 na invalidn\u00ed voz\u00edk. Od t\u00e9 doby ho koupu, p\u0159ebaluji, ot\u00e1\u010dem, aby nem\u011bl prole\u017eeniny, krm\u00edm ho, kdy\u017e nem\u016f\u017ee zvednout ruce, a p\u0159emis\u0165uji ho z m\u00edsta na m\u00edsto, jako by byl sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed m\u00e9ho vlastn\u00edho st\u00ednu. Nikdy jsem si nest\u011b\u017eovala.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nikdy jsem nepomyslela na odchod.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lid\u00e9 v \u010dtvrti San Miguel de las Lomas na okraji Guadalajary mi v\u017edycky \u0159\u00edkali:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eJsi mlad\u00e1, drah\u00e1\u2026 vybuduj si nov\u00fd \u017eivot.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ale j\u00e1 jsem pevn\u011b v\u011b\u0159ila: kdy\u017e tu z\u016fstane on, z\u016fstane tu i moje l\u00e1ska.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u0159ed p\u00e1r dny jsem cestovala do sv\u00e9ho rodn\u00e9ho m\u011bsta v Zacatecas, abych nav\u0161t\u00edvila matku, kter\u00e1 onemocn\u011bla. Z\u016fstala jsem u n\u00ed n\u011bkolik dn\u00ed. Nakonec jsem se vr\u00e1tila d\u0159\u00edve, ne\u017e jsem pl\u00e1novala, proto\u017ee m\u011b p\u0159emohl stesk po domov\u011b: st\u00fdskalo se mi po domov\u011b a ano\u2026 i po n\u011bm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V okam\u017eiku, kdy jsem otev\u0159ela dve\u0159e mal\u00e9ho bytu, jsem z lo\u017enice usly\u0161ela zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed zvuk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">St\u00e9n\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zvuk \u201eeh\u2026 eh\u2026\u201c, jako by se n\u011bkdo dusil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Srdce mi vysko\u010dilo z hrudi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Myslela jsem si, \u017ee m\u00e1 k\u0159e\u010d, nebo \u017ee spadl z invalidn\u00edho voz\u00edku \u2013 to se u\u017e stalo. Odhodila jsem ta\u0161ky a utekla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A pak\u2026 jsem ztuhla u dve\u0159\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"712\" height=\"833\" src=\"https:\/\/chexia.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/35.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8716\" srcset=\"https:\/\/chexia.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/35.png 712w, https:\/\/chexia.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/35-256x300.png 256w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 712px) 100vw, 712px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u017d\u00e1dn\u00e1 k\u0159e\u010d. \u017d\u00e1dn\u00fd p\u00e1d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u016fj man\u017eel sed\u011bl, ale ne na invalidn\u00edm voz\u00edku: byl na posteli, podep\u0159en silou, kterou \u00fadajn\u011b nem\u011bl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A nebyl\u2026 S\u00e1m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Obj\u00edmal d\u00edvku, tak\u00e9 na invalidn\u00edm voz\u00edku, jejich \u00fasta se tiskla k sob\u011b a l\u00edbali se, jako by se m\u011bl bl\u00ed\u017eit konec sv\u011bta. J\u00e1, kter\u00e1 jsem mu deset let um\u00fdvala t\u011blo, z\u00e1da, jeho bezmocn\u00e9 nohy\u2026 mohla jsem jen za\u0161eptat:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eNebyl jsi\u2026 nebyl jsi ochrnut\u00fd?\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u00edvka se hr\u016fzou st\u00e1hla; on se sna\u017eil ustoupit a zamumlal p\u00e1r zvuk\u016f\u2026 a\u017e kone\u010dn\u011b promluvil, pomalu, ale jasn\u011b:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eNe\u2026 Ned\u011bs ji\u2026\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po z\u00e1dech mi p\u0159eb\u011bhl mrazen\u00ed. Byly to roky, co jsem ho sly\u0161ela vyslovit celou v\u011btu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u00edvka se s pl\u00e1\u010dem sna\u017eila vysv\u011btlit:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eOn\u2026 u\u017e n\u011bjakou dobu se v\u00edc h\u00fdbe. Nejsem ta druh\u00e1 \u017eena\u2026 pros\u00edm, poslouchejte m\u011b\u2026\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zatnula jsem zuby.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eTak co jsi ty?\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mlad\u00e1 \u017eena sklonila hlavu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eJsem\u2026 jeho fyzioterapeutick\u00e1 partnerka posledn\u00ed t\u0159i roky. Tak\u00e9 jsem ztratila pohyblivost v nohou\u2026 a on se u\u010dil h\u00fdbat polovinou t\u011bla. Str\u00e1vili jsme spolu m\u011bs\u00edce v rehabilita\u010dn\u00edm centru\u2026 Vid\u011bla jsem ho ud\u011blat prvn\u00ed krok.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u0159\u00e1sla se mi kolena. \u201eT\u0159i roky\u2026? T\u0159i roky st\u011bhov\u00e1n\u00ed\u2026 mluven\u00ed\u2026? A j\u00e1 jsem po\u0159\u00e1d m\u011bnila plenky a tla\u010dila \u017eidli?\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ml\u010del.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u00edvka dodala:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eNecht\u011bl ti to \u0159\u00edct. B\u00e1l se. Myslel si, \u017ee ho opust\u00ed\u0161, kdy\u017e bude\u0161 v\u011bd\u011bt, \u017ee se zlep\u0161uje. Nepostupoval tak rychle, jak by si p\u0159\u00e1l\u2026\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ho\u0159ce jsem se zasm\u00e1la:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eT\u0159i roky bez toho, abys \u0159ekla \u201aU\u017e se m\u016f\u017eu trochu h\u00fdbat\u2018? Nebo t\u0159i roky, ne\u017e se zamiluje\u0161 do n\u011bkoho jin\u00e9ho?\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ticho t\u00ed\u017eilo jako n\u00e1hrobek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u0159istoupila jsem k n\u011bmu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eNebyl jsi posti\u017een\u00fd. Z\u016fstal jsi tam\u2026 zat\u00edmco j\u00e1 jsem se ztratila v p\u00e9\u010di o tebe.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Stiskl mi ruce, t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 prosebn\u011b:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eOdpus\u0165 mi\u2026 neopou\u0161t\u011bj m\u011b\u2026\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pomalu jsem p\u0159ik\u00fdvla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eNeopou\u0161t\u011bm t\u011b. Vrac\u00edm ti \u017eivot, kter\u00fd sis vybrala pry\u010d ode m\u011b.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Popadla jsem sv\u00e9 v\u011bci a ode\u0161la, dve\u0159e se samy zav\u0159ely.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V Tlaquepaque se to dozv\u011bd\u011blo cel\u00e9 sousedstv\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">L\u00e9ka\u0159i v rehabilita\u010dn\u00edm centru potvrdili:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u0159ed \u010dty\u0159mi lety znovu z\u00edskal \u010d\u00e1ste\u010dnou mobilitu, dva roky dok\u00e1zal chodit s oporou a dal p\u0159ednost tomu, abych se o n\u011bj nad\u00e1le staral, proto\u017ee \u201enebyl p\u0159ipraven \u010delit realit\u011b\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0158\u00edkaj\u00ed, \u017ee jsem byl hlup\u00e1k.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ale nikdo nech\u00e1pe, jak\u00e9 to je d\u00e1t n\u011bkomu cel\u00e9 sv\u00e9 ml\u00e1d\u00ed\u2026 jen aby se probudil v n\u00e1ru\u010d\u00ed n\u011bkoho jin\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J\u00e1 jsem jen \u0159ekl:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eTen, co byl deset let paralyzovan\u00fd\u2026 nikdy nebyl on.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Byl jsem to j\u00e1. J\u00e1, uv\u011bzn\u011bn\u00fd v man\u017eelstv\u00ed, kter\u00e9 u\u017e d\u00e1vno zem\u0159elo. Te\u010f spolu \u017eij\u00ed v mal\u00e9 m\u00edstnosti pobl\u00ed\u017e terapeutick\u00e9ho centra. Soused\u00e9 \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed, \u017ee ka\u017edou noc sly\u0161\u00ed h\u00e1dky.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u00edvka na n\u011bj k\u0159i\u010d\u00ed:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eKdybys \u0159\u00edkal pravdu od za\u010d\u00e1tku, takhle by to nebylo!\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A j\u00e1\u2026 poprv\u00e9 za deset let klidn\u011b sp\u00edm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Proto\u017ee nakonec v Mexiku, stejn\u011b jako kdekoli na sv\u011bt\u011b, pravda v\u017edycky vyjde najevo\u2026 i kdy\u017e n\u011bkter\u00fdm lidem to trv\u00e1 deset let.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"M\u016fj man\u017eel je ve vegetativn\u00edm stavu, j\u00ed a sp\u00ed na jednom m\u00edst\u011b u\u017e deset let a j\u00e1 se o n\u011bj star\u00e1m bez jedin\u00e9 \n<a class=\"moretag\" href=\"https:\/\/chexia.info\/?p=8715\"> [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8716,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8715","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-1"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8715","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8715"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8715\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8717,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8715\/revisions\/8717"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/8716"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8715"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8715"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chexia.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8715"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}